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[jo]

Hello
I would like to have some advice of you.
In the chart I got channeled I've got the Relaxation/Flow/Stagnation Goal. Also the channel (Emily Baumbach) wrote: "however you slide to the other Goals from time to time".
At the moment I'm trying to make a decision on what I'm going to do as a job (go to University; what to study? or make an apprenticeship; what?) And my Problem is this: Often I'm thinking: "I don't want to do anything (a bit exaggerated)" which fits the goal really good.
But when it comes to think about, what I'm gonna do, there often comes the feeling and thinking: "Ohh, I have to get a great, sophisticated job and do a lot of things in my life, and see the world and so on".
What is/are the reason/s for this? My chart is listed in the Forum "Overleaves" to find other reasons, than the switching of goals.
So should I prioritize the Goal of Flow, and try to search a fitting job?
But why do I have these contrary feelings/thoughts, too? Impatience? It wasn't listed in the chart, but nevertheless I think, I'm sometimes in it. Or the primary need of Freedom?
I don't know, what to do . Tough, I'm pretty relaxed, with that struggle ^^.

Greeting, jo

[Elisa]

Raoul,
I think you're right, that it could be an effect of sliding to say, Growth as a goal. 

As your Chief Obstacle isn't fixed yet, it could also be Impatience.  (Of course, there's nothing to prevent us from wallowing in any of the other Obstacles even once the chief one is chosen). 

A third possibility is simply that this "dreaming big" is a natural part of the stage of life you're in now.  Your chart mentions you're in the 3rd IM, and that has a resonance with the Young soul age (being the third).  So achieving great things, seeing the world, establishing your independence and individual identity is part of that. 

I'm not sure how to advise you on a career.  Sorry I couldn't be of more help. 

Elisa