It has been said that Priests help others by helping or goading others to self-examination.
For other Priests: How do you view and/or use goading?
For non-Priests: Have you been on the receiving end of their goading? What are your ideas about it?
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For me, I find it's a great tool when someone's stonewalling and not acknowledging their feelings or insights. I'm sneaky enough with it that it usually catches someone off-guard, and their response (while potentially volatile) can often start a whole new line of investigation. I used to be more brazen with it in my younger days, but regard it as a much more situational (and powerful) tool the older I get. Namely, because through experience and the teachings I've discovered that most others dislike the Priestly pace of growth/lessons/etc. that I prefer. Which is fine - I'll be here when you're ready.