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Drury:
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--- Quote from: Drury on May 19, 2011, 05:11:42 AM ---
I've lived long enough to see how my chart has played out and how it's helped or at times seemed to hinder me. I still don't know about my goal of dominance - either I've failed at the task or I'll have to live longer to have that part manifesting. Since I'm 6th level Mature, sometimes it seems like I'm running full speed just to keep up with the craziness. :)
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I sometimes think we have blind spots to our goals, which is why they often seem like revelations when we discover them and finally see first hand how they have been influencing us all along.
Some people manifest dominance in quieter ways than the known stereotypes. Do some soul searching on this. There may be an element of leadership in something you do, but it's not what you stereotypically think of as leadership. You do, for example, seem to have a capable and determined air about you.
Best,
Dave
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I would have answered this a few days ago but I couldn’t remember what thread it was on. I realized that my lifelong issue of being constantly put in situations where people try to dominate me from the negative pole is karmic, teaching me how to get into my own positive dominance in order to deal with the situations. A typical example would be my chiropractor, the only one who could keep my neck in, being angry and even yelling at me on a regular basis for simple things such as asking if I should do yoga and going to another chiropractor when he was out of town. I finally chose to be in pain rather than have him entirely take away my dominance every time I saw him. Now I’m in another situation with a chiropractor in which he’s always right and I’m wrong, no matter what I say. My life for many years has consisted of almost entirely these types of people, including relatives, so I can’t get away. So yes, I can see now where my lifetime goal would be dominance since it’s been affecting my life since the day I was born, pushing me to learn how to attain my goal. I recently read a tip that going to the positive of submission and from there to the positive of dominance can be helpful.
John Roth:
--- Quote from: Drury on May 25, 2011, 05:40:57 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dave on May 19, 2011, 05:28:27 AM ---
--- Quote from: Drury on May 19, 2011, 05:11:42 AM ---
I've lived long enough to see how my chart has played out and how it's helped or at times seemed to hinder me. I still don't know about my goal of dominance - either I've failed at the task or I'll have to live longer to have that part manifesting. Since I'm 6th level Mature, sometimes it seems like I'm running full speed just to keep up with the craziness. :)
--- End quote ---
I sometimes think we have blind spots to our goals, which is why they often seem like revelations when we discover them and finally see first hand how they have been influencing us all along.
Some people manifest dominance in quieter ways than the known stereotypes. Do some soul searching on this. There may be an element of leadership in something you do, but it's not what you stereotypically think of as leadership. You do, for example, seem to have a capable and determined air about you.
Best,
Dave
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I would have answered this a few days ago but I couldn’t remember what thread it was on. I realized that my lifelong issue of being constantly put in situations where people try to dominate me from the negative pole is karmic, teaching me how to get into my own positive dominance in order to deal with the situations. A typical example would be my chiropractor, the only one who could keep my neck in, being angry and even yelling at me on a regular basis for simple things such as asking if I should do yoga and going to another chiropractor when he was out of town. I finally chose to be in pain rather than have him entirely take away my dominance every time I saw him. Now I’m in another situation with a chiropractor in which he’s always right and I’m wrong, no matter what I say. My life for many years has consisted of almost entirely these types of people, including relatives, so I can’t get away. So yes, I can see now where my lifetime goal would be dominance since it’s been affecting my life since the day I was born, pushing me to learn how to attain my goal. I recently read a tip that going to the positive of submission and from there to the positive of dominance can be helpful.
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This doesn't sound like dominance/submission. It sounds more like martyrdom (- victimization) or possibly impatience (- intolerance.)
As far as the chiropracter is concerned, see if you can find out how to put your neck back in yourself. You might be able to do quite a bit with practicing physical awareness of what that part of your body is trying to tell you.
Another suggestion: see a past life regressionist and make arrangements to see if there is any past life connection with the neck problem, and what your High Self (Essence) can tell you while you're in trance. Set expectations first - letting it go where it wants to is just setting yourself up. One key phrase that may resonate is "time line therapy."
HTH
John Roth
Drury:
--- Quote from: John Roth on May 26, 2011, 12:57:34 AM ---This doesn't sound like dominance/submission. It sounds more like martyrdom (- victimization) or possibly impatience (- intolerance.)
As far as the chiropracter is concerned, see if you can find out how to put your neck back in yourself. You might be able to do quite a bit with practicing physical awareness of what that part of your body is trying to tell you.
Another suggestion: see a past life regressionist and make arrangements to see if there is any past life connection with the neck problem, and what your High Self (Essence) can tell you while you're in trance. Set expectations first - letting it go where it wants to is just setting yourself up. One key phrase that may resonate is "time line therapy."
HTH
John Roth
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From this website about martyrdom: “Martyrdom is the self-image of the "born loser", the "quitter", the "pushover", the "doormat". A person with this Feature sees himself as a weakling and a failure. He has a "defeatist" attitude.” That’s not my inner attitude toward what’s been happening with me, and I’ve never had a defeatist attitude or consider myself a weakling or a failure. That’s why it’s so weird that I’ve been attracting emotional abusers for the first third and the latest third of my life. When I had the easier capability of leaving, I’d always leave the situation. But anyway, it could be that it’s not dominance, and if it’s not, I’m not sure how dominance manifests in my life. I’ve been somewhat disabled and stuck in a low-people situation for so long, it could be it just hasn’t had the opportunity to manifest. Either that, or it’s not my true goal, since I’ve read that channels aren’t 100 percent accurate.
mAmbessa:
I can understand how you feel.
I feel like i'm an old man trapped in a young go getters body.
I have to constantly fight the urge to be agressive and move about. I have a goal of dominance and a need for power but above all a soul age that desires to be at peace with people and let people be the king of their own nation. to sit back and observe, but my energy and overleaves make that difficult for me. When i do get to that point, people call me lazy, lack of drive, people think i'm depressed...when really, its times like that i enjoy the most and feel the most at peace
Maybe things will change in a decade or so when i'm around 30 things will change. Right now i feel like my body and systems are pushing me to achieve before i rest.
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